My birthday was uneventful. We went to dinner at The Cheesecake Factory. I had all of my favorite things. And my mom babbled the ENTIRE time. Sigh
Saturday, we went out looking for hair dye. I had had a meltdown earlier last week because I need to dye my hair, and couldn’t find the color. Luckily, we were able to find the color… so Jason made me get 3 boxes. We had lunch, and then we had to go to the dollar store. My period still hadn’t showed up, and I have been feeling nauseated, among other issues. I refuse to pay 8-10 times as much for a pee stick when I can get them at the dollar store for $1.
Sunday, we had to get up early so that we could go to Birthday Brunch. And of course, the very first thing I did was pee… on the stick.
At first, I was trying not to look at it. I am tired of seeing negatives. It was probably only 1 minute that I was able to avoid looking at it. At first, it looked like another negative. Then I looked closer, as I was still bleary eyed from sleep. There was a line…. faint, but there. By the 2 minute mark… there was no denying it – POSITIVE!
I went and told Jason… who was still mostly asleep. His response was “huh, well, good morning to you too”.
That was not the response I wanted.
On the way to brunch, we were trying to decide if we should tell everyone at brunch. Part of me really wants to tell everyone. But the other part of me is terrified. I’m filled with “What-ifs”. I am so worried that things will turn out like last time. I am trying not to worry, and just be happy… but that is SO FREAKING HARD!
We did end up telling everyone at brunch. And Jason called his Mom and told her. I haven’t told my mom, as I think she will just be negative.
Because I lost my old insurance, I can’t see my old OB/GYN. I’m really bummed about that, as I love her. And because I now have medi-cal, I am super limited when it comes to finding a doctor. There is only 1 OB/GYN in Encinitas. And, because of my epilepsy, I don’t drive, and our only car is with Jason – at work. I called the 1 and only OB/GYN that is close. Apparently, when you have medi-cal, you can’t just set up your first pre-natal visit. You have to go in for a Medi-cal Mandated prelim visit. And those are only done on Tuesdays and Thursdays, at 9 am. Which means Jason will have to take off work to take me. But, I have no other option. So next Tuesday, May 27, I have the prelim appointment at 9 am.
The one bonus to this early, prelim appointment is that I get to see a doctor soon. It gives me time to make sure things are ok. It also gives me time to go over all of my concerns. I can bring this new doctor (or someone from his office) up to date on the back story of my last pregnancy. The MC, the complications, the hemorrhaging. I can also bring up the fact that I have a younger sister with Down Syndrome. Plus, all my own medical issues – the epilepsy, the Dysautonomia, the POTS, the OCD, the everything else. I need the reassurance.
Right now, I just need to breathe. Take a deep breath, and relax. Try not to worry. Haha… good luck on that one!